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Sublime SubmissionSublime SubmissionWhat does it mean to give up all control of your body, mind and spirit to another...? Inquiring minds beg to know. This blog is an exploration into all the facets of submission. It is both practical and erotic both introspective and responsive. Articles
Sexy Podcast Roll Call
2007-05-09 16:41:00 I've mentioned my obsession with podcasts a few time on my blog, but I'll bet you don't realize just how deep that obsession goes. I am an avid listener of some the sexiest ones in the ether. But don't worry I'll tell you all about them! Here are some of my favorites. Please tell me if you know of some more good ones because God knows I can never get enough sex....er sexy podcasts...Kinky Sexy Radio: This is one of my favorites. I'm sure you've seen the ad on blog "It's a spanking for your ears" clever, huh? Anyway this podcast explores all things kinky. Professor Tom and his cohort talk about every fetish under the sun. Often times they interview experts in the field and field questions from curious readers. Through KSR I've learned about figging, which lube to use for what, how to tell your partner that you're kinky, the history of the Leathers and the BDSM symbol..and that's just the start.Check it out at kinkysexradio.com or subscribe to it on Itunes!Lis...
The "O" Awards- Have been Updated!
2007-05-09 09:42:00 There is a new award winner, check it out! The O AwardsSee the original blog in all its glory at http://sublimesubmission.blogspot.com/
Review of Two Knotty Boys; Showing You the Ropes
2007-05-09 09:03:00 I just picked up this fun and informative introduction to bondage at Early to Bed ( which is an amazing woman focused sex store in Chicago...but I'll tell you more about that later.) After reading Screw the Roses Send Me the Thorns, I wanted something that was more specific to bondage. I wanted something that was comprehensible for the beginner and used lots of pictures and step by step explanations. Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes met my expectations and then some! It starts by explaining the safety and practicalities of using rope for erotic bondage; rope types, the two finger rule, etc. Next is an introduction to the basic and more advanced knots needed in all types of bondage. This is followed by three tantalizing bondage categories each one revealing exciting ways to leave one's partners in compromising positions...yum! Decorative, Domination and Sexual bondage are just the beginning. There are even instructions for making a home made rope harness for your stra...
Anal Analysis or Back Door Loving 101
2007-05-07 09:08:00 Well your resident sexpert is back to discuss the joys and struggles of anal sex. Let me start by saying before all you ass virgins cringe and quickly find a less "invasive" post. Don't knock it until you try it! I have experienced some of my most intense orgasms from anal or some combination of anal and various other stimulations. No seriously anal orgasms are entirely different from vaginal and clitoral ones and very very yummy!!!Okay so here are my secrets to sensual, sensible sodomy. ( no offense to the religious types I just couldn't resist the alliteration)1) Start small and work your way up. A finger or a very thin butt-plug are a great way to start testing back door sensations. Warning: It's important to make sure the fondler has cut his/her fingernails and has washed his/her hands. Lets keep it clean folks. Start by simply massaging the anus gently. Maybe make small circles then after wetting the finger or dildo (preferably with a water based lube) make s...
Anal Analysis or Back Door Loving 101
2007-05-07 09:08:00 Well your resident sexpert is back to discuss the joys and struggles of anal sex. Let me start by saying before all you ass virgins cringe and quickly find a less "invasive" post. Don't knock it until you try it! I have experienced some of my most intense orgasms from anal or some combination of anal and various other stimulations. No seriously anal orgasms are entirely different from vaginal and clitoral ones and very very yummy!!!Okay so here are my secrets to sensual, sensible sodomy. ( no offense to the religious types I just couldn't resist the alliteration)1) Start small and work your way up. A finger or a very thin butt-plug are a great way to start testing back door sensations. Warning: It's important to make sure the fondler has cut his/her fingernails and has washed his/her hands. Lets keep it clean folks. Start by simply massaging the anus gently. Maybe make small circles then after wetting the finger or dildo (preferably with a water based lube) make s...
Lonely
2007-05-04 22:55:00 Over 3000 people have visited this humble blog, yet hardly no one comments. I wonder if people just don't have anything to say about what I write. Do you like it? Do you hate it? All I can tell is somebody is reading my words.See the original blog in all its glory at http://sublimesubmission.blogspot.com/
Lonely
2007-05-04 22:55:00 Over 3000 people have visited this humble blog, yet hardly no one comments. I wonder if people just don't have anything to say about what I write. Do you like it? Do you hate it? All I can tell is somebody is reading my words.See the original blog in all its glory at http://sublimesubmission.blogspot.com/
Face Slapping
2007-05-03 00:19:00 He sometimes slaps my face. Sometimes I like it. Usually in the heat of passion when he is reminding me that I am his property and his to do with what likes. Then the raw heat from the slaps lingers on my cheeks. It engages the arousal inside me and makes me wet between the legs. Sometimes He does it just to make me we. I especially like it when I am tied up.Sometimes he slaps me when he means it. When I'm in trouble for being really sassy or I try to walk away from him while we are arguing. I wonder if that is too far. When my ears are ringing and my face is stinging. Is there ever a too far with us. Perhaps there would be for other people, but my submission is complete. Its not like I feel abused or anything. It's just sometimes my limits are pushed when I'm not entirely open to them being pushed. When I'm angry about something, that is not a place I want to go. Often I have to go there. I can't explain it. I get so strung up that I need a sharp shock to tak...
Face Slapping
2007-05-03 00:19:00 He sometimes slaps my face. Sometimes I like it. Usually in the heat of passion when he is reminding me that I am his property and his to do with what likes. Then the raw heat from the slaps lingers on my cheeks. It engages the arousal inside me and makes me wet between the legs. Sometimes He does it just to make me we. I especially like it when I am tied up.Sometimes he slaps me when he means it. When I'm in trouble for being really sassy or I try to walk away from him while we are arguing. I wonder if that is too far. When my ears are ringing and my face is stinging. Is there ever a too far with us. Perhaps there would be for other people, but my submission is complete. Its not like I feel abused or anything. It's just sometimes my limits are pushed when I'm not entirely open to them being pushed. When I'm angry about something, that is not a place I want to go. Often I have to go there. I can't explain it. I get so strung up that I need a sharp shock to tak...
Dear Cupid
2007-05-03 00:01:00 I wrote this when I fell in love with my Darling.Dear Cupid, Let me start by saying thank you. Shooting me with your arrow has been absolute ecstasy. I walk on clouds, I have this fluttery feeling in my heart and once more I took up poetry and baby talk. Yes Love has made me a new woman. But therein lies the problem You see as long as he?s with me (we both know who I?m talking about) the light of life shines in my eyes, I beam, I glow, I giggle. But whenever I?m alone waiting for him, the anticipation is that of someone suffering withdrawal from a serious drug. Not that I?ve ever experienced the latter, but I?ve seen the films. White knuckled, sweaty possessed figure curled in fetal positions wrapped in their sheet cocoons talking to people who aren?t there?this is myself when I?m without him. You can see me sleeping until three o?clock in the afternoon, mind you three o?clock in the afternoon, that?s my drug you see. If I sleep until a few hours before h...
Dear Cupid
2007-05-03 00:01:00 I wrote this when I fell in love with my Darling.Dear Cupid, Let me start by saying thank you. Shooting me with your arrow has been absolute ecstasy. I walk on clouds, I have this fluttery feeling in my heart and once more I took up poetry and baby talk. Yes Love has made me a new woman. But therein lies the problem You see as long as he’s with me (we both know who I’m talking about) the light of life shines in my eyes, I beam, I glow, I giggle. But whenever I’m alone waiting for him, the anticipation is that of someone suffering withdrawal from a serious drug. Not that I’ve ever experienced the latter, but I’ve seen the films. White knuckled, sweaty possessed figure curled in fetal positions wrapped in their sheet cocoons talking to people who aren’t there…this is myself when I’m without him. You can see me sleeping until three o’clock in the afternoon, mind you three o’clock in the afternoon, that’s my drug you see. If I sleep unti...
The Golden Age of Spanking
2007-04-26 01:59:00 Was there really a time in the past when it was common for females and children alike to find themselves over a knee or two? If pop culture references are any indication I think it is very likely. I heard that in the 50s and 60s actresses were often posed in OTK shots just to get publicity for a film that contained no spanking, but still the idea had to come from somewhere right?Here are a few of my favorites:What kinds of conclusions do you draw when you see these images? Here's a comment from a friend of mine who grew up during that time period:Thinking back (I was at school in the 60s and 70s in the UK) there wasmost certainly a different attitude towards discipline, both in how itwas delivered and received. There was an unquestioned hierarchy whichhad existed unchallenged since the Victorian era. Although the morecommon reality of domestic discipline only manifested itself obliquelybefore our young eyes (Mum sulkily rubbing the seat of her skirt with awince or the sound of ...
The Golden Age of Spanking
2007-04-26 01:59:00 Was there really a time in the past when it was common for females and children alike to find themselves over a knee or two? If pop culture references are any indication I think it is very likely. I heard that in the 50s and 60s actresses were often posed in OTK shots just to get publicity for a film that contained no spanking, but still the idea had to come from somewhere right?Here are a few of my favorites:What kinds of conclusions do you draw when you see these images? Here's a comment from a friend of mine who grew up during that time period:Thinking back (I was at school in the 60s and 70s in the UK) there wasmost certainly a different attitude towards discipline, both in how itwas delivered and received. There was an unquestioned hierarchy whichhad existed unchallenged since the Victorian era. Although the morecommon reality of domestic discipline only manifested itself obliquelybefore our young eyes (Mum sulkily rubbing the seat of her skirt with awince or the sound of ...
150 Whacks and an Unrequited Menage Trois
2007-04-22 09:50:00 It happened all right. There was no talking my out of this one! Not that there ever is... It turned out to happen in a tolerable position too. I was made to lie face down on the bed-completely naked. I did squirm a little. I have come to realize that this is unavoidable. But I took it the best I could. I didn't block him with my hands once! This is a major victory for me. I did kick quite a bit and He was obliged to sit on my legs, but I suppose I'll just have to take this total obedience one step at a time. I know I did the best I could and He knew it too. It didn't end up being 150 slaps. I did some good deeds and a few smacks were subtracted from the total. Very merciful of Him! I'm still not sure I could take 150 and hope I don't ever find out! It was still quite a bit though. Much more than I am used to bearing. It was 80 smacks. 80 smacks with that nasty wooded spoon that not so long ago I thought was stirring tomato sauce. Little did I know... My ass...
150 Whacks and an Unrequited Menage á Trois
2007-04-22 09:50:00 It happened all right. There was no talking my out of this one! Not that there ever is... It turned out to happen in a tolerable position too. I was made to lie face down on the bed-completely naked. I did squirm a little. I have come to realize that this is unavoidable. But I took it the best I could. I didn't block him with my hands once! This is a major victory for me. I did kick quite a bit and He was obliged to sit on my legs, but I suppose I'll just have to take this total obedience one step at a time. I know I did the best I could and He knew it too. It didn't end up being 150 slaps. I did some good deeds and a few smacks were subtracted from the total. Very merciful of Him! I'm still not sure I could take 150 and hope I don't ever find out! It was still quite a bit though. Much more than I am used to bearing. It was 80 smacks. 80 smacks with that nasty wooded spoon that not so long ago I thought was stirring tomato sauce. Little did I know... My ass...
Reader Sound Off
2007-04-13 18:57:00 This being the third wonderful month of Sublime Submission I would love to hear what you think of it so far!Please take a moment and sound off of on any or all of these questions.Does the blog meet your expectations after reading the introduction? How does it look visually? Are the pictures too explicit or not explicit enough? How is readability? Is it easy to navigate your way around the site?What about the subject matter? Which posts interested you? Which ones could you have done without? What topics would you like to see discussed in the future?What about the fiction? Is it sexy? Does it seem authentic to the characters? Would you want to see more? So far there is no advertising on this site, however I am considering endorsing some products that may be of interests to the readers such as sex toys, paddles, bondage equipment, etc? Is this something you'd like to see? Or would advertising detract from the site? If you don't mind answering please also say where y...
Reader Sound Off
2007-04-13 18:57:00 This being the third wonderful month of Sublime Submission I would love to hear what you think of it so far!Please take a moment and sound off of on any or all of these questions.Does the blog meet your expectations after reading the introduction? How does it look visually? Are the pictures too explicit or not explicit enough? How is readability? Is it easy to navigate your way around the site?What about the subject matter? Which posts interested you? Which ones could you have done without? What topics would you like to see discussed in the future?What about the fiction? Is it sexy? Does it seem authentic to the characters? Would you want to see more? So far there is no advertising on this site, however I am considering endorsing some products that may be of interests to the readers such as sex toys, paddles, bondage equipment, etc? Is this something you'd like to see? Or would advertising detract from the site? If you don't mind answering please also say where y...
150 whacks!
2007-04-11 18:45:00 That's what's going to happen to me! I keep saying the number over and over in my head imagining 150 slaps with my wooden brush or worse--150 with the belt! I can not imagine what it will feel like. I've only had about 15 with the belt. But thats what He said. 150 whacks. 1 whack for every minute I overslept--and I slept until 11:10! I didn't think He was seriously going to punish me but He is and oh my God I am dreading it. I wonder if He'll make me count them like an English school master. "One thank you Sir, two thank you Sir..." I wonder if I could count once we got past 50! I think I wouldn't be able to concentrate anymore. I try to think back on a time when I've gotten it this bad. Usually the number of whacks are undetermined. I get as many or as few as He sees fit and there isn't any counting them. Perhaps I've gotten one hundred over the course of a day and two separate spankings...but a 150 all at once--it gives me chills just contemplating it. ...
150 whacks!
2007-04-11 18:45:00 That's what's going to happen to me! I keep saying the number over and over in my head imagining 150 slaps with my wooden brush or worse--150 with the belt! I can not imagine what it will feel like. I've only had about 15 with the belt. But thats what He said. 150 whacks. 1 whack for every minute I overslept--and I slept until 11:10! I didn't think He was seriously going to punish me but He is and oh my God I am dreading it. I wonder if He'll make me count them like an English school master. "One thank you Sir, two thank you Sir..." I wonder if I could count once we got past 50! I think I wouldn't be able to concentrate anymore. I try to think back on a time when I've gotten it this bad. Usually the number of whacks are undetermined. I get as many or as few as He sees fit and there isn't any counting them. Perhaps I've gotten one hundred over the course of a day and two separate spankings...but a 150 all at once--it gives me chills just contemplating it. ...
Ode to the Vibrator
2007-04-10 01:56:00 The Big Ohhhhhhh, the elusive thing grasped at by many a woman feeling her lover?s fingers between her legs, he?s kissing her and prattling about and she?s thinking ?A little to the left, no, down, and yes? yes? yes? just a little longer?? but being human the fingers slip just below the erogenous zone and later when the man is moaning, pulsating and gasping, the woman is left saying ?Almost?I was almost there?? But thanks to a wonderful smooth cylindrical object that purrs and rubs in all the right places, woman everywhere can slink beneath the sheets and be only a button press away from that fleeting rush of pleasure that for so long has been almost unattainable. This is truly an object that should be cherished and honored not hastily shoved under a mattress, or buried under white cotton in the sock drawer. A woman should not have to blush but should be able to proudly flourish her electric companion in the air when stopped by Airport security, who have found a myster...
Ode to the Vibrator
2007-04-10 01:56:00 The Big Ohhhhhhh, the elusive thing grasped at by many a woman feeling her lover’s fingers between her legs, he’s kissing her and prattling about and she’s thinking “A little to the left, no, down, and yes… yes… yes… just a little longer…” but being human the fingers slip just below the erogenous zone and later when the man is moaning, pulsating and gasping, the woman is left saying “Almost…I was almost there…” But thanks to a wonderful smooth cylindrical object that purrs and rubs in all the right places, woman everywhere can slink beneath the sheets and be only a button press away from that fleeting rush of pleasure that for so long has been almost unattainable. This is truly an object that should be cherished and honored not hastily shoved under a mattress, or buried under white cotton in the sock drawer. A woman should not have to blush but should be able to proudly flourish her electric companion in the air when stopped by Airport securit...
You wont learn this in Health Class!
2007-03-28 00:13:00 Thanks to my new found podcast obsession I have discovered the best sex education snippet in existence. (Apparently its so good it was banned by some right-wingers!) It's called Episode #61 Comprehensive Sex Education (without the focus on abstinence.) Please download this mp3 and share it with any young person who might want to know something more about sex then "Don't do it or you'll be pregnant or diseased." It?s entertaining, straightforward and informative. There simply is no comparison.Click here for a link to the web page of Sex is Fun Radio show who produced this awesome contribution to sensible sex education.Show Description: Comprehensive Sex Education On this very special episode of Sex is Fun, we offer a clean but frank description of medically accurate sex education. We discuss self-pleasuring, hand sex, oral sex and safer sex practices. This episode is free to all and we ask that you make copies and give it to anyone who is considering becoming sexually active....
You wont learn this in Health Class!
2007-03-28 00:13:00 Thanks to my new found podcast obsession I have discovered the best sex education snippet in existence. (Apparently its so good it was banned by some right-wingers!) It's called Episode #61 Comprehensive Sex Education (without the focus on abstinence.) Please download this mp3 and share it with any young person who might want to know something more about sex then "Don't do it or you'll be pregnant or diseased." It’s entertaining, straightforward and informative. There simply is no comparison.Click here for a link to the web page of Sex is Fun Radio show who produced this awesome contribution to sensible sex education.Show Description: Comprehensive Sex Education On this very special episode of Sex is Fun, we offer a clean but frank description of medically accurate sex education. We discuss self-pleasuring, hand sex, oral sex and safer sex practices. This episode is free to all and we ask that you make copies and give it to anyone who is considering becoming sexually activ...
Spank me, I'm Irish
2007-03-17 20:20:00 Happy St. Patty's day to you all. I really am Irish, by the way. My mom was lecturing me the other day about why I wasn't cooking corn beef and cabbage for my Husband. It didn't seem to make a difference that I don't eat beef. So it's been a while since I last posted. In my other life I'm a writer and a reporter. I took on four article simultaneously this last month and damn I hardly made the deadline. My beloved got very angry at me because I was working frantically to get them in seemingly last minute. He thought I had procrastinated and left it all for three days before deadline. That's just stupid and unprofessional. In actuality I was still waiting to hear back from important contacts that I couldn't run the articles without hearing from them, and they waited until three days before my deadline to get back to me. He can't possibly understand because He's not a reporter. Which leads me to wonder. He made me promise under threat of major punishment that this...
Spank me, I'm Irish
2007-03-17 20:20:00 Happy St. Patty's day to you all. I really am Irish, by the way. My mom was lecturing me the other day about why I wasn't cooking corn beef and cabbage for my Husband. It didn't seem to make a difference that I don't eat beef. So it's been a while since I last posted. In my other life I'm a writer and a reporter. I took on four article simultaneously this last month and damn I hardly made the deadline. My beloved got very angry at me because I was working frantically to get them in seemingly last minute. He thought I had procrastinated and left it all for three days before deadline. That's just stupid and unprofessional. In actuality I was still waiting to hear back from important contacts that I couldn't run the articles without hearing from them, and they waited until three days before my deadline to get back to me. He can't possibly understand because He's not a reporter. Which leads me to wonder. He made me promise under threat of major punishment that this...
Photo Credits
2007-03-05 16:11:00 It's taken some time to research who each extrodinary artist is who's created the work I've been using to illustrate my site, but I am proud to announce their names at last.Alex Krivtsto- His work includes the beautiful picture of the two women, one in coresets, the other sensually brushing her side.Kevin Hundsnurschner- I will be featuring his work, but have not as of yetVlad Gansousky- His work includes the photo of a woman bound sitting on a stool and a someone's arm extending into the picture, teasing her with a finger. Also the one of the woman with a collar around her neck with her exposed back facing viewers contemplating the whip she holds in her hand.With a bit more time I will put a brief bio up about each of these artists and link contecting to his website. I will continue to feature work by these and many more. In the mean time do yourself a favor and linger in the maganificence of these artists. It is my personal opinion that these three capture sensuality and ...
Photo Credits
2007-03-05 16:11:00 It's taken some time to research who each extrodinary artist is who's created the work I've been using to illustrate my site, but I am proud to announce their names at last.Alex Krivtsto- His work includes the beautiful picture of the two women, one in coresets, the other sensually brushing her side.Kevin Hundsnurschner- I will be featuring his work, but have not as of yetVlad Gansousky- His work includes the photo of a woman bound sitting on a stool and a someone's arm extending into the picture, teasing her with a finger. Also the one of the woman with a collar around her neck with her exposed back facing viewers contemplating the whip she holds in her hand.With a bit more time I will put a brief bio up about each of these artists and link contecting to his website. I will continue to feature work by these and many more. In the mean time do yourself a favor and linger in the maganificence of these artists. It is my personal opinion that these three capture sensuality and ...
Lessons Learned the hard way
2007-03-03 23:18:00 I've been submissive in some form of the word for four years now. It all started years ago when we had been dating and he slowly created boundaries to for me to follow, and then that first memorable spanking. Its taken me this long to learn a few lessons. The other night I had talked to two wonderful ladies-submissives both who were very knowledgeable about being submissive. They knew some things that are just dawning on my now ( and are much better behaved than I am but perhaps they have learned from their experience) After all I am much better submissive than I used to be.I think you know you've hit a new level when its not just fear of punishment that motivates you to obey when you feel disinclined to do so, its fear of disappointing your Master/Mistress. You start to realize that if you go along and obey (LIKE YOUR SUPPOSE TO DO IN THE FIRST PLACE) The altercation is much easier to handle for both parties. Last night I was kicked out of the bedroom and made to sleep on...
Lessons Learned the hard way
2007-03-03 23:18:00 I've been submissive in some form of the word for four years now. It all started years ago when we had been dating and he slowly created boundaries to for me to follow, and then that first memorable spanking. Its taken me this long to learn a few lessons. The other night I had talked to two wonderful ladies-submissives both who were very knowledgeable about being submissive. They knew some things that are just dawning on my now ( and are much better behaved than I am but perhaps they have learned from their experience) After all I am much better submissive than I used to be.I think you know you've hit a new level when its not just fear of punishment that motivates you to obey when you feel disinclined to do so, its fear of disappointing your Master/Mistress. You start to realize that if you go along and obey (LIKE YOUR SUPPOSE TO DO IN THE FIRST PLACE) The altercation is much easier to handle for both parties. Last night I was kicked out of the bedroom and made to sleep on...
How Far is too Far? The Second Slap IV
More articles from this author:2007-03-03 07:33:00 Is there even such a thing? In a regular BDSM encounter there is the epitaph "Safe, sane and consensual" Whatever happens during a scene is negotiated and agreed on before the scene happens, and nothing outside of what was agreed upon can occur. Also there is a safeword to bail you out if things get too intense (or the negotiated boundaries are crossed) but what about 24/7 relationships, such as DD and Master/slave? We have given up our right to negotiate, given up our right to a safe word for the most part. What if the boundaries are crossed in this situation? Is the submissive ass out? My darling is a level headed man. I have entrusted him with the leadership in our relationship and he takes that responsibility seriously. He is for the most part fair and logical in his discipline. But sometimes he may do something out of anger that just doesn't make sense and pushes my tolerance as his subordinate too far. Sometimes it seams that he isn't aware of his own strength, or ... 1-30, 31-60, 61-90 |
