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Sublime Submission
What does it mean to give up all control of your body, mind and spirit to another...? Inquiring minds beg to know. This blog is an exploration into all the facets of submission. It is both practical and erotic both introspective and responsive.

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How Far is too Far? The Second Slap IV
2007-03-03 07:33:00
Is there even such a thing? In a regular BDSM encounter there is the epitaph "Safe, sane and consensual" Whatever happens during a scene is negotiated and agreed on before the scene happens, and nothing outside of what was agreed upon can occur. Also there is a safeword to bail you out if things get too intense (or the negotiated boundaries are crossed) but what about 24/7 relationships, such as DD and Master/slave? We have given up our right to negotiate, given up our right to a safe word for the most part. What if the boundaries are crossed in this situation? Is the submissive ass out? My darling is a level headed man. I have entrusted him with the leadership in our relationship and he takes that responsibility seriously. He is for the most part fair and logical in his discipline. But sometimes he may do something out of anger that just doesn't make sense and pushes my tolerance as his subordinate too far. Sometimes it seams that he isn't aware of his own strength, or ...

Recipe for a submissive; or How to know you really belong to him
2007-03-02 08:01:00
There is a pinch on the underside of your arm that will stop you mid-sentence. You hear the buckle on his belt jingle and you get chills down your back. You say; yes baby, no baby, always If you hear him say young lady, discussion, if I have to say it again? He opens all your doors and walks with you on the inside of the street. He shifts your direction by holding your upper arm or a hand on your waste, He responds to questions, don?t worry about it, don?t question me? He folds his finger in two and makes you bite it You get wet on your knees You want to be on your knees Except when he tells you to, especially when he tells you to. He has a tone of voice that makes your voice go soft, makes you look down at your toes You obey before you realize what your doing The thought of your hands pinned down, or letting him take you any way he wants excites you. The bruises are beautiful, and the red on your face and your ass match. Th...

Recipe for a submissive; or How to know you really belong to him
2007-03-02 08:01:00
There is a pinch on the underside of your arm that will stop you mid-sentence. You hear the buckle on his belt jingle and you get chills down your back. You say; yes baby, no baby, always If you hear him say young lady, discussion, if I have to say it again… He opens all your doors and walks with you on the inside of the street. He shifts your direction by holding your upper arm or a hand on your waste, He responds to questions, don’t worry about it, don’t question me… He folds his finger in two and makes you bite it You get wet on your knees You want to be on your knees Except when he tells you to, especially when he tells you to. He has a tone of voice that makes your voice go soft, makes you look down at your toes You obey before you realize what your doing The thought of your hands pinned down, or letting him take you any way he wants excites you. The bruises are beautiful, and the red on your face and your ass match...

"Forced" Sex in D/s
2007-02-27 07:14:00
If you are in a total power exchange relationship and you've agreed to always be available sexually to your partner is it within his/her right to force you if you try to refuse? For the most part I would never refuse my Darling's attentions, but one time my Husband wanted me and I just couldn't submit. I had only an hour before I had to leave to work and He choose the most inopportune time in my opinion. However I realized very quickly that my opinion had little to do with the matter. My Darling forced me to acquiesce. it wasn't like I minded much. It was actually very hot. I was just worried about being late for work. I don't think that there was a problem. In our relationship the submissive gives up all control. The very word "submit" defines that guidelines of my Darling's expectations for me. But our relationship is a microcosm in relation to the rest of power exchange relationships. It makes me wonder, is it ok for the Dom to force the sub if they are reluctant...

Hurts so Bad its Good
2007-02-24 07:26:00
It doesn't matter how much I hate it when its happening. How much pain or discomfort it causes me, if He tells me to do, it becomes something sweet. I can't explain it. Today I was fixing my hair and my shirt went up a little exposing my sides and my stomach. I don't know what came over my Darling but He suddenly wanted nothing more than to spank and slap this exposed area. I had never been smacked there, and it hurt tremendously. But since I decided to be a good little submissive ( See "No more Nos") I knew I'd have to take it. I put my hands together folded behind my head and grunted in pain the whole time. It hurt and I hated it. But at the same time it made me hot and bothered. The very action of submitting to something as unpleasant as that made me horny. I am one mixed up individual. I guess it's just the way I'm wired. And you know the funniest thing about it? You'd think taking someone's orders and giving up control would make you feel trampled upon...

The "O" Awards-
2007-02-23 16:51:00
The "O" awards are kind of like the Oscars except that they are awarded only to movies that dutifully portray one or more aspects of a BDSM lifestyle. This will be an ongoing list and each movie or book will be rated by how many "O"s it gave me. I encourage readers to submit movies titles because although I love them my knowledge is limited.The Story of O: A Masterpiece of Sexual Obsession OOOOO (five Os)The Pet Movie OOO (2 Os see my review)The Secretary OOOOO (Five massive Os)9 1/2 Weeks O (yet again warning us of the "dangers" associated with "deviant" lifestyles.Losing control- OO (Very entrancing...until he turned out to be a psycho killer)Eyes wide shut- OO ( As if there was really anything wrong with sex cults...)See the original blog in all its glory at http://sublimesubmission.blogspot.com/

The "O" Awards-
2007-02-23 16:51:00
The "O" awards are kind of like the Oscars except that they are awarded only to films and books that dutifully portray one or more aspects of a BDSM lifestyle. This will be an ongoing list and each film or book will be rated by how many "O"s it gave me. I encourage readers to submit movies titles because although I love them my knowledge is limited.FilmsThe Story of O: A Masterpiece of Sexual Obsession OOOOO (see my review)The Pet Movie OOO (2 Os see my review)The Secretary OOOOO (Five massive Os)9 1/2 Weeks O (yet again warning us of the "dangers" associated with "deviant" lifestyles.Losing control- OO (Very entrancing...until he turned out to be a psycho killer)Eyes wide shut- OO ( As if there was really anything wrong with sex cults...)BooksTwo Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes OOOOO (Comprehensive instruction with step by step pictures! see my review)See the original blog in all its glory at http://sublimesubmission.blogspot.com/

The Harem
2007-02-22 23:53:00
My husband anounced to me that he is activly searching to find us a naughty little playmate. He plans to get someone who is fairly vanilla and train them. For the most part I know whenever I want or don't want somthing, but for the fist time in my life I am utterly intrigued and utterly repulsed at the same time. He told me that he's going to tie me up in kneeling position with my wrists tied to my ankles and then fuck her in front of me, and I will have to watch and do nothing. It makes me so hot and bothered I cant fathom it. But at the same time the idea of my husband kissing and fucking another woman--I am just so confused by my feelings. Fortunately I don't have to worry about my own feelings and opinions. That's the charm in being His slave. I just have to say "yes Sir" and do what I'm told. I just don't know whether I will be pulling on my binds, trying to escape so I can run away or try to remove them so I can rub myself while I watch or even better join in. ...

The Second Slap-Excerpt III
2007-02-22 21:53:00
Chapter 8The Second Slap ?To realize your body completely belongs to someone else is something, to realize you want it that way, that is something else. ? -Suzy Naked, Bent over at the waste over the kitchen sink, Suzy had time to ponder her situation. She pressed her knees against the cabinet doors beneath the sink and perked her ass up arching her back as much as she could. Her palms were spread out across each cheek. She was using her fingers to spread her cheeks as far as she could. Behind her Paco took ice cubes from a bag in the sink, popped them in her mouth and when he felt the spit and warmth of her mouth had melted them enough he cupped his hand under her mouth and commanded her to give him the cube. Suzy did not like this game. The ice was so cold it hurt, and it had been a while since anything had entered that hole, it was starting to get tight again. She could feel her anus pucker around the ice cube. The skin around it started to numb, and she felt ...

The Second Slap-Excerpt III
2007-02-22 21:53:00
Chapter 8The Second Slap “To realize your body completely belongs to someone else is something, to realize you want it that way, that is something else. “ -Suzy Naked, Bent over at the waste over the kitchen sink, Suzy had time to ponder her situation. She pressed her knees against the cabinet doors beneath the sink and perked her ass up arching her back as much as she could. Her palms were spread out across each cheek. She was using her fingers to spread her cheeks as far as she could. Behind her Paco took ice cubes from a bag in the sink, popped them in her mouth and when he felt the spit and warmth of her mouth had melted them enough he cupped his hand under her mouth and commanded her to give him the cube. Suzy did not like this game. The ice was so cold it hurt, and it had been a while since anything had entered that hole, it was starting to get tight again. She could feel her anus pucker around the ice cube. The skin around it started to numb, and she f...

The Second Slap-Excerpt II
2007-02-22 21:29:00
Chapter 3 The Solution ?I can easily imagine belonging to one man for my entire life, but he would have to be a whole man, a man who would dominate me, who would subjugate me by his inner strength, do you understand? And every man?I know this very well?as soon as he falls in love becomes weak, pliable, ridiculous. He puts himself into the woman?s hands, kneels down before her. The only man whom I could love permanently would be he before whom I should have to kneel? - Leopold Von Sacher-Masoch, Venus in Furs All night Suzy cried. She called his number again and again after he left her. She didn?t sleep, just continued to press redial on her phone hearing the sound of Paco?s voice mail again and again. Finally she wrote him an e-mail, sent it and left one more heart-straining message on the voice mail: ?If you really love me and value what we have you?ll read the e-mail I sent you and then call me?. He did. Many hours later she was sitting on the couch beside him, ...

The Second Slap-Excerpt II
2007-02-22 21:29:00
Chapter 3 The Solution “I can easily imagine belonging to one man for my entire life, but he would have to be a whole man, a man who would dominate me, who would subjugate me by his inner strength, do you understand? And every man—I know this very well—as soon as he falls in love becomes weak, pliable, ridiculous. He puts himself into the woman’s hands, kneels down before her. The only man whom I could love permanently would be he before whom I should have to kneel” - Leopold Von Sacher-Masoch, Venus in Furs All night Suzy cried. She called his number again and again after he left her. She didn’t sleep, just continued to press redial on her phone hearing the sound of Paco’s voice mail again and again. Finally she wrote him an e-mail, sent it and left one more heart-straining message on the voice mail: “If you really love me and value what we have you’ll read the e-mail I sent you and then call me”. He did. Many hours later she was sitting on th...

The Second Slap-Excerpt I
2007-02-22 21:22:00
Chapter 2The Slap Between her legs it was gritty. The lube would cake and peel afterwards and her body was so spent from convulsing tingling scream worthy waves of orgasm that she didn?t want to move an inch. The sheets always felt cool and soft on her shaved legs; she liked cool soft sheets under her shaved legs because it made her feel more naked-like one layer deeper than just with out clothes. The cramped studio apartment where Suzy lived was dark except for the forgotten candle in the nightstand. It had been burning for so long that a small puddle of wax had formed around the base. They were lying together on the futon bed. It creaked and moaned with each movement because the wooden hinges on the bottom were broken and if it weren?t for the plastic filing box under the wooden frame to keep the hinges straight and the mattress flat, the bed would collapse. This was where they slept when Paco spent the night. This night had been wonderful, before they made lov...

The Second Slap: Novel Summary
2007-02-22 21:06:00
The Second SlapNovel Summary?To realize your body completely belongs to someone else is something, to realize you want it that way, that is something else. ? Suzy When Suzy, a white women from a liberal family met Paco, a Chicano with roots as deep as a cactus plant, she had no idea what to expect. From the very beginning their love was a battleground for power. However, soon it becomes evident, that not only is Paco winning, but that Suzy likes it that way. Tempted to explore these new feelings, the couple begins a tantalizing exploration into the boundaries of Dominance and Submission. The Second Slap is a modern Story of O, but instead of a whirlwind of actions happening to a helpless victim, the characters of The Second Slap are not only aware of what?s happening?they welcome it. It is a raw piece of modern fiction that ponders on love in its many facets.The chapters are abrupt and vivid, each one more wild and abrasive than the last. This is not your average romance...

Naughty's secrets to the Big O
2007-02-20 01:14:00
It has come to my attention that there are many women who are not achieving their potential for massive mind-blowing, breath-taking, body shaking orgasms and that my friends is a damn shame. I've even heard tell of women who hardly ever orgasm, or only orgasm from clitoral stimulation! My stars and garters! It is so sad that a small tear is flowing down my cheek as I write this! So I've decided to let you all in on some of my secrets to amazing orgasms. Keep in mind this is from a submissive's perspective and the main advise I'll give you is let go of control and trust your sensations.As far as I can tell there are three main sources of orgasm 1) Clitoral stimulation 2) G-Spot 3) Anal Some experienced BDSM folks can orgasm from pain alone, nipple stimulation etc, but lets just keep it simple.These are my rules based on four years of AWESOME SEX.Rule #1)The more stimulation, the more powerful the orgasm. So if you stimulate the clit while penetrating the vagina, it ...

No more "Nos"
2007-02-19 05:37:00
It seems each day I discover some level of submission even deeper than the days before it. Yesterday it was to put down all my walls, erase my lines in the sand and to just accept what ever He choses to give me be it painful, pleasurable, uncomfortable etc. To me the true power, the true reward is submitting completely. I know that it is not my nature and I will not always jump up and immediately obey. I will err, I will show disrespect at times, I will forget things and act in anger. I will also find myself punished and humiliated. But if when I can keep my head about me, when I'm making the conscious decision to obey, when I have cast aside all my preconceived barriers then I am one layer deeper HIS and only His. This is all kind of heady talk so let me give you the practical ramifications. I used to tell him you can slap my ass but not my face, you can cum on my stomach but not my face, you can fuck my ass but only in when I'm lying on my back--who the fuck did I thin...

Femaleness II
2007-02-17 22:55:00
To be completely woman you need a master, and in him a compass for your life. You need a man you can look up to and respect. If you dethrone him it's no wonder that you are discontented, and discontented women are not loved for long." ~Marlene DietrichSee the original blog in all its glory at http://sublimesubmission.blogspot.com/

Femaleness
2007-02-17 22:40:00
"I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh god, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling... but I am going to be persued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding. " ~Anais Nin This is me. Perhaps I'm not alone after all. It seems there are a lot women who fell this way.See the original blog in all its glory at http://sublimesubmission.blogspot.com/

Ass Whuppn'
2007-02-14 07:42:00
I hope no one has sensitive ears or anything, because its my blog and I intend to cuss sometimes. I got an ass whuppn' today, with the belt too. My s/o got fed up with my attitude. I would have got it pretty bad too if I hadn't have calmed down enough to just turn around and take it. I suppose a true submissive would have been shamed enough at having displeased her master and voluntarily turned around to take it. I'm never willing during the moment. I often have to be held down. Today I only stayed still because he threatened to give me more if I didn't. I wonder if I'll ever get to the point where I'll just say "yes sir" (probably with tears in my eyes and whimpering) and just turn around and take it. Still stings now as I write this, although it could have been much worse. If there is anyone reading out there who actually does get hit on occasion and can just turn around and take it, I'd love to hear from you. Go ahead and tell me how you do it. If you need to...

The Story of O and Kinky Sex Radio
2007-02-10 07:54:00
I saw the Story of O, the film version was perfect. I hadn't expected that. Usually when they make a movie out of an awesome book, it comes short somehow. In fact I think in someways the movie captured and structured the story better than the book then. Reading it I sometimes think the author got so taken up in the fabulous life she was living she couldn't quite get enough distance to write it down. Boy do I know how that is. Its hard to separate yourself from the action when your writing based off your life--especially when your writing about this kind of topic. So anyway the Story of O was absolutely fabulous. The cinematography was beautiful. The scene in particular that sticks in my head is the one where she is whipped naked with her hands tied to two beautiful white columns. Her whole body is moist with sweat and you can see the marks from the whip all over her thighs, hips and even breasts. Her eyes are bright and set back inside her. She has the complete look of...

A Review of the movie: The Pet by Tricoast Studios
2007-02-08 08:53:00
The Pet staring Pierre Du Lat and Andrea Edmondson is not a modern story of O.It is the story of a young American woman who is given a choice to become the human pet of a European man. She accepts the arrangement, is stripped naked, collared and branded and happily lives the existence of a full power exchange agreement where the submissive is reduced to the role of an animal. It is a charming depiction of freedom through submission. This all goes sour however when the immoral acquaintances of GG's master, who are involved in the actual trafficking of human slavery, some of which are sold merely for their organs, decide to sell her without prior permission from the master.It was written seemingly from perspective of someone quite outside the lifestyle yet whom sought to portray it in as positive a light as they could. For the most part it fell short of this expectation. Some things were done extremely well. The cinematography's of the naked GG being led around the fabulous San...

The Practical Life?
2007-02-07 07:54:00
So just how practical is a long term DD relationship? I know couples from online acquaintances that have carried theirs on for years and years. My husband sometimes insists that its just a temporary fix...he sometimes get doubts. I'd like to give you this rosy picture of DD, that it all just works out now that he spanks me, like in the romance books, but I'd be lying. DD like all other relationships is a constant changing thing, that we need to redefine as our lives go on and change. I don;t think we could ever stop all together thought, despite what my husband says when he goes through one of his doubtful phases. It just suits our nature so well. 1) for him to lead, for him to expect my obedience, 2) For me to need the closure that a spanking provides after I've erred. He used to say "saying sorry is never enough" I guess we both just consider an ass whupin as sorry plus a sincere demonstration of my commitment to change. Its funny, I always get punished when I mess up,...

Sample DD contract
2007-02-06 08:37:00
I recently realized while searching for some DD resources that the sample contract on which my husband I based our contract is no longer search able/findable. So here is my small service to the DD community. Here is a copy of our contract that way it can be used as a template for new couples. THE DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE AGREEMENT Date 5-28-2006 I, __________wife of ____________ do hereby acknowledge that I have read the information on domestic discipline and approve of the doctrines it advocates. From this date on it is my wish to have my conduct regulated by the enforcement of these doctrines. I give to my husband, therefore, the full right and permission to remove privileges, send me to the corner, or spank me whenever he feels such discipline would prove helpful and be in accordance with the spirit of the agreement. This Agreement has been entered into willingly - and for no other purpose than to improve my disposition and secure the general benefit that always comes from the enfor...

The Collaring
2007-02-06 08:27:00
I recently read that when a Dominant gives his submissive a collar, its official--He owns her mind body and soul. Of course my husband owned me officially when he put the ring on my finger. When I said the old fashioned vow "To love honor and obey" Who knew that the obey part would be the hardest? Anyway, I guess it's as official as it gets now. I have my very first collar. It's actually a dog collar. It's brown leather and has little blue stones encrusted on the edges. It's very beautiful. The feeling when it was placed around my neck was nearly indescribable. I felt sexy and beautiful and so so so HIS! We bought a little red leather leash to go with it and my darling husband has led me around and around our small apartment. He's started calling me his little pet, and it never felt more true now that I have this one little treasure. What is it about the collar that makes us feel so submissive? Is it the fact that throughout the ages slaves wore collars to show...

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