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back again
2009-07-23 19:10:00
Well I see that the page is getting a few hits, but not much in the way of feedback. Feel free to send a PM if you have any questions or would like something included, since this is still a part time work in progress, I am adding things as they come up.Sometime in the next coupl eof weeks my wife will also be posting somethings to give her perspective of things.As mentioned in my last post Getherblacked.com is one of our most common sites to check on the web. As I mentioned it is one of the most honest sites out there, as the moderators do a great job of screening and removing troublemakers and fakers. Something that anyone that has spent much time on the internet knows the web is full of. For a community site is one of the best we have found yet.As for dating and hookups my vote has to go for Online Booty Call mostly due to the amount of activity it sees and the options available for free. Not to mention we have had far more success than from other sites even AFF. Although the ...

past due update
2009-07-15 02:52:00
Well so much for time flying when you are having fine.  It has been almost 2 months since my last post on here, and care of some not so fun real life issues that time has just flown past.Over the last two months there hasn't been too much time for any recreational fun at all, unfortunately.  However we have both spent some time on a site we found recently http://www,getherblacked.com/  and if anything the time we have both spent talking to members and couples on there reinforces the main reason for starting this blog.  As online communities go the moderators do a pretty damned good job weeding out the dumb shits, fakes, wannabes, etc.  They have a great community over there with, as the name suggests, the primary purpose of introducing white women to interracial sex.  If you are looking for some personal chat time to ask questions or something a little kinkier this is definitely the place.There are so many variations to this lifestyle it can get a little confusing, and someti...

Things have been kind of hectic.
2009-05-20 03:26:00
Sorry things have been kind of hectic lately with finals and everything else going on.  Trying to get links set up and get the blog recognized on search engines has been rather time consuming.  It is good to see some of the members of getherblacked.com coming on to check out the blog.  I am also currently putting together a series of clothing designs for the hotwives section.  Hopefully the links for that will be up soon.   http://www.cafepress.com/IRSwingers

One of the most commonly asked questions
2009-05-12 21:15:00
I will be adding things slowly over the next week between various links, guides and general commentary.  For starters I am putting together a common FAQ from our experiences to date, which will include some helpful information.One of the most common questions I get is "how did you convince your to try....?" which I mentioned previously.  There isn't a simple straight forward answer to this, sorry to say, it took almost 5 years.  Also you need to keep in mind that not all women are the same, some approaches work better for some than others, and sadly if you don't know how to talk to your other half by now then you should probably not go down this road just yet.So that wasn't too encouraging or helpful right?  Communication is an essential part of a relationship and if you are looking to open up the terms of your marriage communication is a REALLY big part to prevent a disaster.  If you feel comfortable enough in this area then by all means proceed.Now to opening her up to the...

New to the game
2009-05-11 08:34:00
Not so much new to the swinging scene, been at it for a few years, but new to the blog scene.  Since I get asked so many times how did you get into this? or How did you convince your wife to....?  I thought what the hell I would put something like this together and see what happens.So as the as the spring semester ends for school I will be putting together some posts for the blog advice, stories, commentary, and such.Not the longest or most exciting post, but it's late and my wife and I both have very early finals in the morning, so....