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I see a slippery challenge between wanting pleasure.
2012-05-14 14:50:00 I see a slippery challenge between wanting pleasure, that is, sexual energy delights for my partner and myself and the desire to channel it in a spiritual direction. The ultimate spiritual direction seems to be of service to others, creativity and unification. It seems as if tantric sex, although certainly less than “regular” goal oriented ...
Is it possible to have sex for hours without any break?
2012-04-20 13:42:00 Is it possible that any person can have sex continue one hour without any break? If yes, then how can he do it? ANSWER Yes, extended lovemaking for hours at a time is certainly possible, and definitely delightful for both partners. To accomplish this the male must learn ejaculation and erection mastery. First, about erection. ...
I would love to explore my sexuality in a professional atmosphere.
2012-03-30 21:34:00 I am so very curious about your work and I have to ask some questions since something I have never done but would love to do, is to explore my sexuality in a professional atmosphere. You see I am an exhibitionist. Being an exhibitionist and flasher naturally my overall fetish is that of exposing myself, ...
I want to increase my penis size.
2012-03-22 09:20:00 I want to increase my penis size at least 1 inch. Now my penis size is 4 inches when fully erect. What can I do? ANSWER: Concern over penis size is understandable but unfortunate. Even a three inch penis is sufficient for satisfying intercourse for a woman if you are knowledgeable and skilled in the ...
I ejaculate even when I do not want to.
2012-03-06 18:32:00 I came across your website by some unknown way but my question to you guys is that I am 19 years old and I have never had sex nor have I been in any relationship so far. But I have been in the habit of masturbation since I was 13 or 14 years old I ...
Threesome with my wife
2012-03-06 18:32:00 I was wondering if you could explain how having a MFM or FMF threesome with my wife and another man or woman would empower my wife? ANSWER: Sorry, but we do not recommend such practices. We have nothing against them and make no moral judgments about them, but generally do not find them interesting. We ...
Is it better if I lean more down toward him?
2012-02-06 23:56:00 A follow up question of the previous Q & A: “It makes quite uncomfortable for me“. Thank you so much for getting back to me, and also thank you for the suggestions. I have been doing kegel exercises for a while. I did them mainly to keep my vagina “in shape”. Not sure if that is ...
It makes quite uncomfortable for me
2012-02-06 23:56:00 Well, here is my problem. I am 34 years old and dated more than a few men. Not a lot, but more than two or three. All of the guys were what I would consider average or a little better in the penis department. I have never considered myself a size queen, nor do I ...
I don?t care about sex
2012-01-07 05:48:00 I am exhausted all the time, working and taking care of our 2 year old… I don’t care about sex. My husband is upset, what can I do? I have no desire and just want to go to bed.at night and be left alone… Causing problems in our relationship… many of my friends feel the ...
I have never had a serious relationship with a man.
2011-11-28 08:16:00 I have been having strange feelings for me lately. I want to be with a man and be his slave sexually. I have never had a serious relationship with a man. But now I find myself wanting a man to take control of me sexually. Am I losing my mind or is this a somewhat ...
Why you should make love longer
2011-10-21 07:46:00 Truly satisfying lovemaking on all levels, emotional and spiritual as well as physical, requires time. It’s about much more than intense intercourse or even foreplay. Harmony must be established between the lovers. And that means connecting through your hearts and minds before you jump each other’s bodies. Pala and Al tell you how?it’s simple, fun ...
Asking for What You Want Sexually Part 2
2011-09-08 05:18:00 Asking your lover for what you want and giving your lover whatever has been requested are two sides of the same coin?a yin/yang balance of receiving/giving, and passive/active pleasure. Just as it is important to learn to freely ask for what pleases you, it is also important to know that you can give unconditionally. This ...
Erotic Massage For Better Sex: Sensual Massage Techniques To Relax Her Mind
2011-09-08 05:18:00 Do You Find Sex Boring After A While? Is It Difficult To Help Your Lover Orgasm During Sex? Not Anymore! With These Erotic Massage Moves… Your Lover Will Be In Heat & Begging For More Before You Even Begin! Hurry and get a Copy Now
Asking for What You Want Sexually Part 1
2011-09-08 05:18:00 It may be difficult to ask for what you want in bed if you do not know what that is. Furthermore, you may not have any language to use to ask for what you want. Here are some simple exercises to help you discover what you like and do not like, and to create a ...
How Long Should a Man Keep his Erection?
2011-08-23 17:10:00 How long should a man keep an erection? Is there such a thing as too long? Find out. All good things, 4freedoms@tantraloving.com www.sexyspiritualrelationships.com www.tantra-sex.com
In what ways may the Kama Sutra bring balance in one?s spirituality?
2011-08-22 21:54:00 In what ways may the Kama Sutra bring balance in one?s spirituality? The Kama Sutra is not primarily a spiritual text and not a spiritual practice, so any contribution to balancing one?s spirituality would be incidental rather than deliberate. However, the Kama Sutra does emphasize the 4 great aims of life. Dharma (moral character), Artha ...
Are there any connection between the Kama Sutra and Yoga?
2011-08-22 21:54:00 Yoga means union. There are many forms of yoga, but all of them are spiritual practices leading to enlightenment in which the individual ego is transcended and there is a direct personal realization of God consciousness. The Kama Sutra was not a spiritual text. It simply taught methods by which two people could stay in ...
Can the Kama Sutra be explained in a summary?
2011-08-22 21:54:00 The Indian scholar Vatsyayana gathered and edited the manuscripts now known as the Kama Sutra sometime during the fourth century around 350 C.E., approximately 1,600 years ago. This is the most famous love manual of all time, offering timeless advice to lovers on how to make a relationship successful. The first English language translation was ...
Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions ? ?Afterplay?
2011-08-22 21:54:00 “Afterplay” In the glow? What happens after lovemaking is as important as what happens during lovemaking. When the ordinary man ends lovemaking with an involuntary ejaculation, both lovers can feel cheated and disappointed. The male typically wants to roll over and go to sleep or get up and immediately return to some ?important? project he ...
Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions ? ?Show me what you like?
2011-08-22 21:54:00 Show me what you like Visually, one of the most erotic things is to watch your lover masturbate in complete lusty sexual abandon. A rare, extraordinary treat is to see her ejaculate with the sunshine streaming in through a window (or if you are lying outside), resulting in a kaleidoscope of exotic colors as her ...
Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions ? ?Oral Sex?
2011-07-26 09:50:00 Oral Sex “69″ Oral loving is a classic way for lovers to serve up pleasure. Really, aren?t you a better person when you regularly experience pleasure? Aren?t you nicer to be around and easier to get along with? Don?t you like yourself better when you are regularly experiencing pleasure? “Cunnilingus” ?When you give really good ...
Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions ? ?Sacred Bathing?
2011-07-23 09:26:00 “Sacred Bathing” Merging in the ocean of consciousness One perfect way to begin a sacred loving time is to bathe together. Place candles around the bathing area; put fresh or dried flower petals in the water, use bath salts, essential oils and fine herbal soaps. Washing away cares of the world Wash each other?s hair ...
Where is the line between both sexes?
2011-07-21 01:12:00 I would like to make clear in a certain confusion I am confronted with. So much is talked nowadays about so called practice of tantra by homosexuals. It is according to me against the traditional understanding of tantra and such “Sexual Secrets” by N. Douglas & P. Slinger clearly get along with my opinion as ...
How do I trust him with my body and heart again?
2011-07-15 01:08:00 I just found out my boyfriend had cheated on my almost 6 months ago. With one of my so called friends. I don?t know the details but i want to try and move on everything has been great for us the last 6 months. How do i trust him with my body and heart again? ...
Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions -?Sacred Space?
2011-07-05 02:22:00 “Sacred Space” Holy Ground What is the difference between ?sex? and ?sacred sex?? Essentially, the difference is your attitude and intention. It is primarily through ceremony and ritual that we communicate with our souls. Creating a sacred space for loving is one of the best ways of signaling to your deepest / highest consciousness that ...
Do you offer training for people who want to become a tantra teacher?
2011-06-25 11:02:00 I have been reading your book Soul Sex: Tantra for Two, and following your newsletter. I hope that you can help me with this. Do you offer training for people who want to become a tantra teacher, or are aware/ know of any tantra teacher training (with certification) that offers training to become a tantric ...
What should I do before my marriage
2011-06-25 11:02:00 I have been masturbating for around 7 years now. I am 22. I fear whether I will have any trouble in sex (penis may not get full erection) after my marriage. I want to get clear on whether this will lead to some problem or nothing is wrong in doing this. If it is a ...
Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions ? ?Sexual Fire Breath?
2011-06-25 11:02:00 Sexual Fire Breath The sexual fire breath is one of the best exercises, especially with a partner (but you can also do it alone), for rapidly building a hot sexual charge and moving it up through your body, helping to open all of your chakra centers. In the sexual fire breath you use a combination ...
I got sore throats after I performed oral on him
2011-06-25 11:02:00 Hello, I would never be able to ask anyone a question like this so here goes. I have been with my fiancé for almost 5 years now. We used to make love a couple times a day, every day, until about a year ago or so. I have never had a sore throat or worse ...
Tantra and Kama Sutra Sex Positions ? ?Erotic Massage?
More articles from this author:2011-06-11 11:10:00 “Erotic Massage” Primarily for arousal, erotic massage focuses, although not exclusively, on tantalizing skin-to-skin contact that becomes increasingly sexual as the massage continues. Using light, feathery touches begin moving inwards from the extremities of your lover?s body, for example from her toes, up her feet, to calves and thighs, stopping just short of her genitals, ... 1-30, 31-60, 61-90 |
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