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Closing My Bubble
2012-04-22 02:08:00 I haven’t written anything here in a while. Not because I don’t want to blog, but because I’ve been busy. Obviously college is taking up a huge chunk of my time, but so is everything else in my life. My husband has had an insane work schedule since November so I haven’t had much help with all of the other responsibilities around the house. I’m exhausted. After a day full of tending to the kids, getting them off to school, getting myself to school, squeezing in meals and homework, dealing with their after school needs, chores, dinner, and bedtime routine, I simply do not have any time that is truly my own. I don’t even have the desire to work out right now, though I know it might help me feel better. The last thing I feel like doing is having sex. By the end of the day, I feel like I’ve done nothing but give away pieces of myself to everyone else and there is nothing left for me. When my husband tries to touch me and be intimate, I close my...
Review: Galore Chemise and Thong
2012-03-04 00:07:00 I was hesitant to order a brand of lingerie I wasn’t familiar with, especially with all of my weight loss. I took the plunge anyway and purchased a huge order from Eden Fantasys just in time for Valentine’s Day and my tenth wedding anniversary. One of the pieces I picked out was the Galore Chemise and Thong by Seven Til Midnight in a 1X/2X. It fit perfectly, made me feel confident and sexy, and was beyond comfortable. The Chemise has a very simple and basic design. Why reinvent the wheel, right? It’s basically a sheer, full body slip. Thin straps, simple cups and a cute little ruffle around the bottom. The entire piece is sheer with opaque polka dots, purple embroidering around the seams and an adorable purple bow between the cleavage and on the lower, right hip area. It comes with a comfortable and attractive black thong too. Gorgeous The sizing is accurate! The 1X/2X should fit a 16/18, D-DD cups, 40-46″ bust, 36-38″ waist, and 42-48″ hip. My bu...
Gifted
2012-02-16 04:27:00 Since our anniversary is so close to Valentine’s Day, the holiday celebration sort of meshes into a week long exchange of love, sex and gifts. Chad and I managed to squeeze in a shopping trip (where I purchased brand new, smaller bras. Losing 30 lbs will do that to a girl.) and ate at our favorite Japanese restaurant. I always forget how huge their sushi rolls are and wind up eating them for lunch the next day. Man, are they good though. I love eel. He’s still dealing with the after effects of inventory, so he hasn’t and won’t have anymore days off until Friday. I’m pretty sure he worked for almost 14 days straight, and then 7 or 8 more. I went and had lunch with him at Red Lobster one Monday after class. Not awesomely romantic, but we have to make due until March when we can go on our trip back to Florida. As far as gifts, we picked up Kindle Fires for each other. Wal-Mart had a deal where you got a $50 gift card with your purchase a couple of weeks ag...
What Do I Buy?
2012-02-05 21:51:00 I’m sure you’re all curious what I invest money in when it comes to special treats from my favorite sex shops. I get quite a bit of stuff in exchange for my opinion and a few well-placed links back to websites of the company that carries whatever product they sent my way. One of the perks of the job, I guess. It all makes the cost of hosting this website and domain a little more worthwhile. Valentine’s Day is quickly approaching though, and coming even sooner than that is my ten year wedding anniversary! That’s right, folks. In four short days, Chad and I will be entering into our eleventh year of wedded bliss. So what does the girl who has everything buy for her husband on such special days? Lingerie, of course. Well, from sex shops, anyway. We’re both getting Kindle Fires, he bought me a lovely pair of hoop earrings with diamonds on them and there are some things coming in the mail that I’m not suppose to know about, so I can’t tell you wh...
Review: Eroscillator 2 plus
2012-01-27 18:45:00 I remember drooling over this product for months as I read review after review about how amazing it was. That Christmas (about two years ago), I splurged and finally bought myself an Eroscillator. I intended to review it shortly after purchase, because I just knew it was going to be amazing, but I was initially let down by it. I had built up these expectations about it because of all the hype, spent $140 bucks plus shipping on it, and once I had it pressed to my clit I found myself feeling like I had wasted a ton of money. Don’t stop reading yet! I promise it gets better. Eroscillator 2 Plus At first, I toyed around with the different heads. I was trying to figure out what I liked the most. Sometimes I got off. Sometimes I didn’t. Sometimes there was way too much stimulation. Sometimes there wasn’t enough. Then my sex drive took a nose dive, and I stuck it in my nightstand drawer for almost a year. I couldn’t be bothered to use any of my toys on a regular bas...
Cleaning Out the Toybox
2012-01-21 15:05:00 You know how various organization books and sites recommend you get rid of things you haven’t used after a certain period of time? I went through a major purging of crap in my house. Clothes that don’t get worn that worm their way back into the laundry hamper every week, magazines, books, household stuff… and sex toys. Sex toys were last on my list, but I needed to sort them because they weren’t fitting into my nightstand anymore. My mother-in-law bought me some pretty storage boxes a couple years back for my birthday, and I had been stuffing things into those boxes, but it wasn’t really efficient. They just stayed in the closet and never got used. Sometimes, I even forgot to write reviews for them, especially with my sex drive being non-existent for so much time last year. A couple of weeks ago, I dumped all the boxes out on the bed and turned the nightstand drawers upside down, and dug through every place I stash toys, creating a pile of sex toys on ...
The D Word
2012-01-19 17:00:00 Tuesday was a really busy day. I got up, got the kids on the bus, and then got myself off to school. Chad’s working a heavier schedule with inventory coming up and my spring semester started, I’ve had less time to do things I need to do around the house. I’ve stayed mostly on top of the housework, but I really needed to go grocery shopping. On the way home from school, I asked my sister to sit at the house and be here when the kids got off the bus in case I didn’t get home in time. She had to work around that time, so I was really crunched for time. I managed to squeeze my grocery shopping trip into 30 minutes of shopping and make it home and unload the groceries about 15 minutes later. Then the kids got home before I had the chance to put it all away, and plundered through everything between asking if they could have various things for their snack and shoving folders in my face for me to sign. I got them settled and started on their homework, then started pu...
The Aftermath: Two and a Half Years Later
2012-01-18 19:51:00 It’s been two and a half years since the affair. I know I haven’t written about it quite a while. Honestly, it’s because it’s not something I continue to think about anymore. I guess it’s true what they say about time healing all wounds. I’m really glad that things have worked out the way that they have. Chad and I took a series of really terrible events and wove them into something truly amazing. There are still times when I’m randomly hit with a memory about what happened. Usually while I’m driving and a song comes on that was popular during that period of time. If ever there was a time to be thankful that the music this generation of people like changes the way they change their underwear, it’s with something like this. The other time is usually when I walk into a room and a scent takes me back. It’s really not too bad. It doesn’t take long for me to shift my thinking to something else and focus on how our marriage...
It’s Almost Valentine’s Day
2012-01-15 21:11:00 It’s that time of year again. Couples everywhere are on the hunt for something romantic and sensual to get their partners. Many will enjoy an evening out on the town and retire back to the bedroom for a night of passion. I guess it’s fortunate that there are places like EdenFantasys around to help enhance that experience. They have a wide selection of sensual products, lingerie, sex toys and even bath and body products to take you from that romantic bubble bath to every screaming orgasm. There is something suited to everyone’s budget and preference. My personal recommendations include anything from the Coquette line of lingerie, most of the JimmyJane sensual products, LELO pleasure objects, Liberator gear, Pjur, Sliquid or Pink lubricants, Njoy, or Vixen Creations. Of course, there are plenty of other options, but those happen to be many of my favorites. Once you’ve selected a few things to try, you’ll thank me. You don’t have to take my word for ...
Review: Tenga Air Lite
2012-01-09 17:00:00 Several months back, the folks from Babeland sent me the Tenga Air Lite to review. I requested it because Chad enjoyed the Tenga Fliphole so much. The Air Lite is sort of a compact version of the Fliphole. It’s got all the bells and whistles, but it weighs less. It’s also slightly smaller, which makes it easier to use. Description of textures The Tenga Air Lite is a male masturbator with loads of texture. You can choose between black or white, with black being a bit more firm (according to the site). The inside of the shaft has all sorts of nubs, swirls, and ridges that are designed to give maximum stimulation to the penis. Similar products have the same texture throughout their toys, but Tenga took care to make sure that the user would be pleasantly surprised with every thrust. Not only does the texture change as you get deeper into the toy, but each side has a different design, including special textures at the insertion point and where the head of the penis will spend...
Hello There, Sex Drive…
2012-01-06 22:48:00 It has been a rough couple of months. I was really busy with starting college, keeping up with the kids school stuff and just doing the normal stuff around the house to keep things going like they were suppose to. I did really well prepping my lunches and such for about a month after school started, then I got lazy and started eating fast food after class. I gained back about 10 lbs and felt like crap. After finals, I noticed that my pants were really snug. I’d already sold the majority of my larger pants on ebay or tossed them, so I decided it was time to get serious again. I set a goal to be fitting comfortably back into my pants by the time the next semester began. Then I set a goal to lose 50 more lbs this year (on top of the 20+ I’d lost already). On the 1st I weighed in at 248 lbs (up from around 235lbs this past summer). Today, a mere 6 days later, I weighed in at 242.4 lbs. Not too shabby of a loss. I’ve just been counting calories and eating better foods. ...
Review: ID Juicy Lubes
2011-12-23 17:00:00 Have you ever been torn about buying a large bottle of something that you weren’t sure you would like the flavor/scent of? Has it ever been over a flavored lubricant to enhance oral sex? Not that oral sex is ever boring, but sometimes it’s nice to try out new things. So… I asked the folks at OurNaughtySecrets.com if they’d send me the 5-pack sampler of ID Juicy Lubes. I figured they would make a great stocking stuffer for my husband. I like doing cute stuff like that. The bottles are small enough to tuck into a purse, pocket or luggage for a weekend trip. ID Juice Lubes Before neatly tucking them underneath his Reese’s Pieces and Jolly Ranchers, I gave each of the half ounce bottles a taste. The flavors are Luscious Watermelon, Bubblegum Blast, Wild Cherry, Strawberry Kiwi, and Passion Fruit. Each of them lived up to their names. My favorite was the Strawberry Kiwi and the Watermelon. You’ll probably enjoy similar flavors in lubes that you enjoy ...
Review: XXXmas Cane
2011-12-23 00:44:00 I was recently sent a few items from the lovely folks at OurNaughtySecrets.com. One of them is the XXXmas Cane by Trinity Erotic Glass. I’ve secretly been lusting after a candy cane dildo for a couple of years now, purely because they’re sort of adorable, but they function nicely too. XXXmas Cane The cane is about 11″ long with a 1″ diameter. That may seem slender, but glass is less forgiving than silicone or other squishy materials, so it’s a good idea to go with a smaller girth. It’s shaped and designed to look like a classic candy cane, with clear glass, red swirls and a distinct hook on the end. The hook could be used for some pretty intense g-spot stimulation, depending on where your g-spot is located. It doubles as a convenient handle as well. It comes with a black velvet bag that’s tucked behind the styrofoam case. Make sure to check for it! Glass dildos have some fairly unique properties, similar to metal ones, in that it can be heat...
Review: Wine Jeweled Babydoll
2011-12-11 14:41:00 EdenFantasys sent me the Wine Jeweled Babydoll by Escante to review last week. I was pretty disappointed about not being able to wear it because the size chart was way off, but it’s still a pretty piece. You can check out my review on EdenFantasys.com.
Review: JimmyJane Afterglow Sampler and Contour I
2011-11-29 17:00:00 Sampler Set It’s no secret that I’m a fan of JimmyJane products. Well, their massage products. I’ve yet to really test many of their vibrators. I love their candles and ceramic massagers so much that I didn’t just buy a set for myself last Christmas. I also bought some for my parents. I picked a fragrance I knew each of them would like and got them the Contour M. For Chad and I, I picked up the Afterglow Sampler set and the Contour I. I really wanted the Contour Q as well, but it doesn’t seem to be in stock anywhere. I guess I’ll start with the sampler. It’s a set of 6 candles in some of JimmyJane’s best scents: Bourbon – This is a really musky, woodsy scent. Cucumber Water – Similar to the favorite cucumber scented body lotions available everywhere. My second favorite in the set. Dark Vanilla – A heavy vanilla scent that’s less sweet smelling than your average vanilla lotion or candle. Grapefruit – Cit...
Review: Tickle Your Fancy
2011-11-28 17:00:00 Tickle Your Fancy I went to one of those “pleasure” parties a few years ago and purchased a book written by Dr. Sadie Allison that I loved. When MyPleasure was offering another one of her books to review last month, I put in my request and waited for it to arrive. Tickle Your Fancy: A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Self-Pleasure manages to take you through the basics definitions and techniques for female masturbation, while being conveniently condensed into about 100 pages and providing plenty of cute cartoon, yet accurate, diagrams. Dr. Sadie Allison manages this by giving much of her information in bullet points and using the drawings to help drive the point home. In the beginning of the book she discusses how female masturbation has been considered taboo in much of society, pointing out how this has led to a real lack of experience and knowledge about what works for women sexually. Our bodies are complicated. We all like different things and learning how to orgasm take...
The Results
2011-11-22 01:56:00 It’s been a long month. Longer, actually. All the doctor tests came back normal. I had a sonogram to check for fibroids or lesions, and there were none to be found. The doctor talked with me about my results for my lab tests, all normal. He said it’s good because it rules out all the bad stuff. He doesn’t believe there’s anything wrong, aside from the fact I have consistently irregular (ha) periods. He hopes the glucophage with get my insulin in check, and eventually I’ll start to ovulate regularly again. I’m just exhausted. Bleeding for 6 weeks, two of those while taking a medication that was suppose to make me stop bleeding, then being put on an even higher dose of estrogen for a few more weeks was awful. Since the estrace didn’t work, he had me stack Loestrin24e (3 a day for 3 days, 2 a day for 2 days, then 1 a day til I finished the pack). I did stop bleeding, had some breakthrough spotting after a couple of days, then as soon as I finis...
Back to the Doctor
2011-11-09 12:40:00 A couple of weeks ago I posted that I had met with a new OB/GYN about my prolonged bleeding. He prescribed estrace to stop it, and I took it as prescribed for two weeks. Friday was my last dose and I am still bleeding. Not only did I continue to bleed throughout taking the medication, but it got heavier as well. I called his office yesterday when I finished class and spoke with the receptionist about what’s going on. She said he’d likely want to see me back since the medication isn’t working. So, I’ve got an appointment this morning at 11:30. It works out alright, I guess, because I get a chance to eat lunch with Chad near his job since the doctor’s office is located close by. I’m getting a little bit worried though. With the heavier bleeding I’ve noticed I’m more tired and that I even sometimes feel like passing out when I’m doing Turbo Fire. Yes, it’s intense exercise, but I never had any problems with that before. Not ev...
Review: Sinner’s Paradise
2011-11-06 16:35:00 Sinner's Paradise One-Size A couple of weeks ago, the folks at MyPleasure were kind enough to send me some new items to review. One of those items was the “Sinner’s Paradise” lingerie set by Dreamgirl. I’ve been meaning to pick it up for a while now, since it was fairly inexpensive and looked very sexy on the models. To start, the costume comes in two sizes. One size fits most or Queen. My measurements put me in the queen sized version. As far as sizing goes, the material is very slinky and stretchy, so it would likely expand to fit the range of measurements it claims to. The halter neck allows for the bust to be adjusted to fit a wide variety of chest sizes as well, while still being fairly flattering. The ruched seam down the front of the sheer chemise helps to camouflage any areas you might be self conscious about. More accurate see-through Queen Size When I say sheer, I mean sheer. The picture on the site does not demonstrate how thin and see through...
New Music!
2011-10-26 17:27:00 A couple of weeks ago, a friend posted a link to an article and video about Boyz II Men on Facebook. We found out they were releasing a new album on October 25th (yesterday) and we were really excited to get it. We picked up “Twenty” at the store this morning and it has satisfied my nostalgia and introduced me to new good music. My favorite song so far is “More Than You’ll Ever Know” —
Adjusting
2011-10-24 00:37:00 I’ve mentioned a few other times that I have had major issues with my menstrual cycles. It’s been happening for about 4 years now. Every doctor I have been to has put me on the newest hormonal birth control being pushed. It seemed to work, for a month or two, then I’d get moody and depressed from all the estrogen. So I would stop taking it, and the problems would come back. I would go longer and longer without having a period, and then I would have one that lasted several weeks. On top of that, I would bust my ass trying to lose weight and get about 30 lbs off before the longest period of my life happened and I started eating everything that didn’t move. Obviously, I would put the weight back on in a short span of time. Friday I was able to meet with a new OB/GYN who told me that he suspects I have insulin resistance and metabolic syndrome. He also said he thinks I may be dealing with some PCOS and thyroid problems. He said they’re all sort of inter-rel...
Looking Forward to Vacation
2011-10-06 02:04:00 My husband is taking his vacation starting Saturday and should be off for the entire week. No interruptions from work. The kids will be in school most days and that will leave us a bit of time to reconnect. It seems like he’s been working nonstop the past five weeks, so this time off is very welcome. While I’m in class, he can help get some of the housework done. We need this time. We’ve neglected each other for responsibilities for too long, and busy times are coming with the holiday season approaching. I’m hoping we can establish a better schedule and not let it get this bad again.
Review: Nexus Silo
2011-09-25 18:09:00 If you’ve never heard of Nexus before, they’re a luxury sex toy manufacturing company. Their prostate massagers are some of the most popular in the industry and there is an obvious reason for this. Because they’re awesome! Chloe from Nexus sent me a few of their products to try out a couple of months back and the Silo was one of them. The Silo For starters, the Silo is one of the prostate plugs offered by Nexus. All that means is that it’s more of a hands free option. The design allows it to slide in and stay put while stimulating the prostate. If you squeeze or flex the muscles in that area, the plug will sort of rock back and forth to massage your prostate. It can be worn during sex or masturbation. A lot of times, the natural muscle spasms from having an orgasm and movements you use to thrust will be enough to move the plug. Having said all of that, the plug was too large for Phallicity to enjoy. He wasn’t comfortable using it for anal play (on me or...
More To It
2011-09-19 12:54:00 If I’ve learned anything about cheating, it’s that the cheating isn’t the problem. It’s merely a symptom of the problem. It may complicate the problem, causing hurt feelings and mistrust all around, but ultimately there are deeper issues that need to be tackled. The situation I mentioned in my last post is no different. I spent my day yesterday, after taking two of the kids to Urgent Care to get prescriptions for strep, scrubbing and deep cleaning my sister’s house with her and a friend. I say house, but we only managed to get the kitchen and living room mostly done. She has a full time job and started going to school with me full time on top of that, so she needed the help. Where she should have gotten it is something I won’t address because it still pisses me off. She’s overwhelmed. She’s exhausted. She can not physically do all of it alone and something has to give. He’s not making her life any easier and she is miserable. You...
If I Had it to do Again
2011-09-14 13:03:00 Tomorrow’s date is etched in my mind (September 15th). It’s the day that I found a text message on my husband’s phone that drastically altered my life. A simple “It’s suppose to rain in ATL this weekend, baby.” had the power to rock my world to it’s foundation and turn it upside down. Two years later, we’re in a much better place. I’ve been thinking of the events that occurred during August and September of 2009 simply because it’s been two years. It’s been more of a reflection on how far we’ve come in that short two years. It’s also been because someone pretty close to me is experiencing the all too familiar signs of cheating from their boyfriend. She’s busier now, with new responsibilities in her life like college on top of a full-time job. He has a job too and their schedules clash a lot. He reconnected with an old friend, they exchanged numbers and now they’re texting each other all the tim...
Studying is Hard…
2011-09-02 23:08:00 He had been reading the Federalists Papers for his political science class. The wording was archaic and went in circles. He had read the same paragraph twice now, trying to make sense of the old documents. He was just about to start the third attempt when she walked into the library. Sasha was in the same class and sat a few seats in front of him. She was short and sweet, her body full of curves. She had on plaid skirt and a white short-sleeve button-up. He watched her every move, trying not to look obvious. She set her books down and grabbed a chair at the next table over. She caught him looking and smiled. He smiled back as she pulled out her book and started studying. She adjusted her skirt and he caught a flash of smooth skin and pink fabric. She glanced up, blushing and he became amazed at the intricate detail in the grain of wood in the table. When he looked back up, she was reading. He took the time to drink her in. Since she sits so far ahead in class, he hadn’t had a ...
She’s a Handful…
2011-08-20 17:48:00 He slid inside her like a glove, flexing his fingers. She was warm and tight, her pussy wet and slick with lust. It made hungry little sounds as he slipped his fingers in and out, her pleasure dripping off his hand. She squirmed and wiggled, glancing back over her shoulder as she rested on her hands and knees, her luscious ass swaying as he toyed with her. She purred under his touch and he played her like his favorite instrument. Tap, tap, tap… He flicked his fingers together in one motion, the pads of his fingertips pressing into her g-spot in a slow, steady rhythm. Her purrs became louder, deeper, full of wanton lust. Her smell was all over him and his hand was slick with her passion. He pulled out of her and sucked on his fingers, savoring that sweet flavor and scent that was the essence of her desire. She made a small sound and arched her ass into him, her pussy hot against his own urgent need. She shivered slightly as his cock throbbed against her. He lost his own breath...
Brief Update
2011-08-18 00:38:00 I’m sure you may have noticed my absence and that my husband has been posting some erotica recently. I just started college and my kids went back to school, so I have a lot on my plate right now. I’m getting a routine down and figuring out where I’ve got free time to squeeze in blogging. I’ve currently got a bit of reading to do for my English and Political Science classes, so I don’t have much time. I thought you all deserved an update though. First, thank you to the people who have used my affiliate links in the past month or two to make purchases. I really appreciate the boost in income and I hope my reviews helped you select items you will enjoy. Don’t worry, I don’t know who you are or what you ordered. All of that is private. I just know that 5 or 6 people have got wonderful things from Eden Fantasys and Better Sex recently. Feel free to email me (sarahbear0683@yahoo.com) if you’d like to let me know how you like what you ordered...
A Letter to the Author
2011-08-12 04:34:00 To my Sarah… I see you. A beautiful woman, full of life and love. Your gorgeous dark hair, pale skin and freckles, the curve of your hips. I love your green eyes and pouty lips. I love your smile, your touch, your scent. I love wrapping myself in sheets that smell like you. I love sharing your warmth under the blankets. I love seeing you happy. I hear you. I hear your sharp wit, your charm and great sense of humor. I love making you laugh and hearing it keeps me laughing. I love your intelligence and your logic, how passionate you are about your beliefs. I love being the person who gets to share those with you. I feel for you. I hurt when you hurt. Over past experiences with friends, lovers, and family. I feel your pain and want to hold you so tight. I wish the girl back then could see the woman you are now and know she will be alright. That she is worth it. That she is beautiful. That she is amazing. I wish she could see your success, your confidence, your dedication. I trus...
The ties that bind…
More articles from this author:2011-08-06 05:22:00 Slap. The kiss of leather seared through her. Her back arched, wrists and legs straining against the silk ropes twisting between her limbs, her breasts, the bedposts. Slap! A sharp bite into her bottom, sending warm little shivers up and down her spine. She wiggled her ass, asking for more. Slap! The weight of his hand and she could still feel his fingers on her long after the act. His lips, hot and hungry, kissing the sensitive, flushed skin. His tongue, soft and wet, tracing the marks on her flesh. Slap! She felt the paddle hit her thighs and ass as she arched her back into the blow and a small sound slipped from her mouth. She heard his voice. He asked her a question. “More..” she whispered, her voice a little shaky. Slap! A moan, soft and low. She felt the blow shudder through her body, bringing a slow, throbbing warmth. Slap! Her panties were wet. She wanted to touch herself, but her hands were tied. She moaned in pleasure and frustration. Slap! She lost her breath with the... 1-30, 31-60, 61-90, 91-120 |
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