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No Gym? No Problem!
I?m a gym junkie. Something about that atmosphere plus the feel of iron and steel mixed with raw emotion and energy while working out invigorates me. Wouldn?t you agree? If you don?t have access to a gym, don?t fret. Body-weight exercises are great to do. Just you and open space. Here are my favorite body ...
Tuesday Sublime: Boy/girl pain/love
Licking my lips, I looked at my precious girl on her knees, her eyes covered, head down. She was waiting for me as I instructed her. It was wonderful to have a submissive who actually listened. Circling her like a shark, I grabbed a handful of her hair and wrenched her head back, exposing her throat. Her ...
Squeaky Clean Restores Marital Harmony: Say What?
A few weeks ago in the Chicago Tribune, Mark Jacob and Stephan Benzkofer wrote a wonderful piece on little-known facts about contraceptives. I read it in the print paper (where it had pretty pictures and a kick-ass page layout), but it’s online too in basic form. ...
Damned is Back!
By request of the beautiful Bella, I am back within comforting folds (think lof a warm duvet on a freezing cold morning) of Bombshells and Rockstars! I am still opinionated, still highly sexed, I have just learnt to save the bad behaviour for the bedroom. I am now married, the Hubby has embraced his inner ...
Cuffs, Workouts, Whips, & Adventures: Meet MasterE
There?s more to MasterE than meets the eye, more on that later. Growing up, I was never into fitness, working out or being remotely healthy. I was the kid/guy who liked his video games, junk food and not moving. Eventually something clicked. A philosophical foundation mixed with the yearning to improve myself physically, mentally and ...
The Importance of Getting Off -or- Fighting For What Is Within
Life peppers a consciousness like so much rain leaving impressions, corrosion and sometimes straight up heart breaking personal apocalypses that leave one empty, clear, with nowhere to go and nothing to think. In those moments a being can go one simply BE in the emptiness and allow the infinite to shine through. Or, one can Identify into a part ...
The Pursuit of Pleasure
In so many way, I am a hedonist. I chase pleasure as it twinkles through the night sky, flashes back at me from a reflection in a shop window, calls me on the phone, or makes its presence known to me at a party. And when I’m not seeing it clearly and being lured by ...
Holiday Cheer & Life-Altering Goodness
Tis the season … no matter what you celebrate, or if you celebrate anything at all. About this time tomorrow morning, I’ll be at the airport, aboard a plane, embarking on a delectable trip that will tilt the axis of my world. Since I don’t know just when I’ll make it back to my keyboard,
Review: LELO Tiani
The LELO Tiani is one of three new products in the second generation of LELO?s Insignia Line. Tiani features SenseMotion? technology, for what is advertised as a wireless couples? pleasure experience, unlike anything that has previously existed. While there is no doubt that Tiani is an adorable, flexible and sweet little toy ...
One Stolen Breath at a Time
His fingers wound round and round in my hair, as if it were not my hair but rather a wind-up key of a handcrafted toy from the highest shelf. He wound me to him, and he wound me around him, and my essence rose from the core of me. There was nothing else. Felt-sense led ...
Dream in the Key of Adrenaline
Everything is shifting, tumbling into a tapestry more beautiful than I could have woven at my own hand. There is tumult with the change, a loss of footing, but not a negation of self. It seems beyond what I can articulate, beyond what is appropriate for the content of a blog, a journal entry, a ...
?Aisling Veritas, darling,? I say, running the back of my hand across the soft skin of her high cheekbone. ?Have you ever been disrespected in chambers?? She laughed like a mockingbird. Sweet song notes floating into the ether. ?In chambers, Sephedrie?? My cheeks turn beet. ?Yes,? I whispered, leaning into her hair, absorbing her scent. ...
Espresso Beans & The Great Name Debate
There’s a lot in this world that can keep a girl going. Love, friendship, random conversations in the middle of the night, sunshine on a brisk day, sweet pick-me-ups, and espresso beans. Yes, espresso beans. They’re a mean addiction?an upgrade from coffee?especially the ones coated in decadent dark chocolate. I shouldn’t let myself have them, ...
Absence of Trigger Warnings: Say What?
Most of us are aware of trigger warnings we see on the interwebz prefacing stories which may contain information, details, or graphic descriptions disturbing to those who are particularly sensitive (whether due to trauma, or otherwise). Occasionally, I even see these warnings in print novels. However, I’ve yet to run into a movie?I’m talking mainstream ...
Sleepy day, Sleepy girly
Today is a sleepy day. I haven’t resorted to my mint chocolate espresso beans yet, but I’m making no promises! Only three hours of sleep, but a full heart brimming over with gratitude and goodness?not so bad as a pair. Snippets of erotica are running rampant in my monkey mind, along with an ever-growing ...
The Surge. The Panic. The Rush.
It surges through me, electricity giving voice to my yearning. I feel in the grip of you, but really I am in the grip of this beast called love. It holds me close, and forces me into the moment. Again. Again. My past surfaces, my traps, my fears, and sometimes I fall hard into the ...
Sex Toy Sales On the Rise Despite Struggling Economy
Included in the list of products that have seen increased sales since the economy tanked are chocolate, firearms, antidepressants and sex toys. Although you might expect to find at least a few of the former three in any household suffering under this 9% unemployment rate, the last item on the list could catch some consumers ...
Check Out the Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2011
A note from me: The following list is republished from Rori’s wonderful site, Between My Sheets. I encourage you to go check out her original post, including the housekeeping notes, and goodies offered at the end, which are not re-blogged here. I also want to say that I’m incredibly ...
Hollywood Sex Wars: A Must-See Film on Dating, Hookups, Relationship Mishap
Hollywood Sex Wars, an unapologetic comedic critique of the dating life of 20-somethings, is a movie you should need to see. Single and planning to stay that way, dating the field, monogamous, polyamorous, engaged, or happily married, Hollywood Sex Wars has something for you. Written and directed ...
Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. If you like what you see and want more of it be sure to follow our RSS Feed and Twitter.
Slip on Some Sass: A Review of Stretch Lace Elbow Length Gloves
There are few accessories or sexy lingerie pieces as easy to slip into as a pair of lace gloves that add such instantaneous pizzazz. When Sin City Playwear contacted me and offered an item for review, I was immediately drawn to their Stretch Lace Elbow Length Gloves. I adore throwing on ...
Electrify Your Pleasure: A Review of the Kinklab Neon Wand
The lovely folks at Va Va Voom contacted me about reviewing the Neon Wand, part of Kinklab?s Electro-Erotic series, and I was more than thrilled. Kinklabs Neon Wand is designed as an echo of electric ray wands, but it much lighter to handle, and has no moving parts, so it is sure to last ...
Free Laughs: Cherry On Top
The funny folks at The Second City, Inc. were kind enough to contact me about a sweet lil’ short comedic video their network just launched about Groupon hookers. Confused? Watch Cherry On Top by The Second City Network and let laughter replace your confusion. Enjoy! Need more funny? Watch Lady Parts: Hard ...
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Lover as Chameleon ? Flexible Sexual Kinkery
Non-monogamy and swinging has allowed Marilyn and I to be exposed to a wide variety of sexual interaction that, had we continued upon our plain ole monogamous ways, we might never have seen. Among these things are the vast spectrum that is BDSM, anal play, bisexuality and other wonders of the sexual experience. Have we ...
A Short Lesson In Victim-Blaming: Intelligence, Influenza, & Immunity.
Intelligence, existing as a trait in an individual, does not mean that the individual will never be prone to abuse. Victim-blaming sucks. I say this because earlier today, in alluding to an intensely personal trauma I experienced, I was met with the response, “You seem way too smart for that.” The conversation ...
Language as Skin.
Sometimes it feels like cheating to scrawl urgent thoughts, musings on love + sex + relationships across the pages of journals that will never be seen by the eyes of others, or within word processing documents that will soon be lost + forgotten, disappearing into the shuffle of the everyday like the tide erases footprints ...
The Love Rider Stimulator: A Review
The Low Down.The Love Rider Stimulator by California Exotic Novelties is a 100% silicone strapless strap-on. It is non-porous, hypo-allergenic, and phthalate-free. Its shaft is 8 inches long and 1.5 inches wide. The probe (aka bulb) part of it is 3.5 inches ...
Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. If you like what you see and want more of it be sure to follow our RSS Feed and Twitter. ...
Hydra by Intimate Organics: A Whole New Lube Experience
Intimate Organics brings sexual enhancement products and spa accessories back to something greener, cleaner, and happier for the body. Dealing with allergies, chemical sensitivities, and a sometimes all-too-fragile body system myself, I?m always on the lookout for alternatives to additive-laden lubricants which often prove problematic. Parabens, DEA, and glycerine are just a few of the infamous ...
Tuesday Sublime: 14 ChristmasesMore articles from this author:
I told you I didn?t get Christmas. I wasn?t kidding; I didn?t know it was a thing until I was fifteen. You said you owed me fourteen then. That?s amazing. You say amazing things. I say these things because they are fact. Not because I want anything. I?m a girl who had one perfect Christmas ...
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